5 Day Spice It Up Relationship Challenge. In only 5 days you can reset and re-engage in your relationship!

It was so much FUN and I got a lot of positive feedback… so I brought it back from the archives. (I am still a brunette back then 🤣)

This is for FOR COUPLES who want to Spice Up Their Relationship, learn things about each other they never knew, relate, understand, and communicate better…so that they can have WAY MORE FUN.

ALSO FOR SINGLES who want to figure themselves out within relationships, become more confident and learn new relationship skills. Also the dynamics of a past partner so you can figure out what happened and learn from the experience….and can discover which personalities are more compatible with you.

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In our relationships what we really want is to be understood, someone who really gets us, sees what’s awesome about us…and puts up with our “stuff”, also called quirks.

Why do you need this?

• Well most of us are stuck in patterns that don’t work
• Our partner doesn’t make sense and we can’t figure out what makes them tick
• We fight about the same things over and over again-our personality differences
• We want to know if our partner really loves us

A client told me she dropped a mixing bowl on the floor and her husband hasn’t spoke to her for three days. Why would that be an issue?  Old patterns of not communicating contaminate and sabotage relationships.

When we don’t know how to fix what isn’t working, sometimes we feel our only solutions is silence, shutting out or shutting down..

IT DOESN’T NEED TO BE LIKE THAT!

This really is the time to re-engage, re-jevenate, and re-energize your relationship.

The 5 Day Reset is going to look like this:

I’m going to give you very specific information each of the 5 days in order to do the exercies that is personality based to help you to understand your personality traits and emotional needs together.

These are FUN AND EASY excercises and you will learn lots about yourself and your partner.

Tell your partner and invite them to participate in the reset. However you don’t need them to partipate. They will probably become engaged as you go through it as it is positive for them too.

Here is a little of what you will be experiencing in your 5 Day Challenge.

To make this easier to engage, I will give you very specific stem sentences and scripting to engage your partner and their specific personality preferences.

I am in a relationship challenge for 5 days to understand myself, you and our relationship better.

Here is the personality type I think that I am. Would you agree with that?

Add any comments….I was surprised…I didn’t realize this…did you? (Being vulnerable and sharing will make them more comfortable and open to possibly joining the challenge.)

Would you be willing to take the personality test too and join the challenge? This will help us to understand very specifically what each of us thinks, feels, and why we act and react the way we do. It will help us understand our different perspectives and how to relate to each other easier.

There are many generic ways of appreciating your partner…I appreciate you when you get me a coffee, do the grocery shopping, make supper, etc.

When you verbally express appreciation to them specific to their personality type, it is much more impactful and loving to them. They will feel that you really get and understand them.

This is what you might say to a 1-Perfecter. I appreciate that you are always so organized and wanting to improve on everything. You really look after a lot of the details of our lives. I appreciate how you work so hard to get everything organized and running smoothly…down to the very last details.

Where were you? What were you wearing? What was playing in the background? And most importantly — how did they make you feel?

What was it that first drew you in? Was it the sparkle in their eye? The way they swaggered into the room? Their shyness? That smile that stopped you mid-sentence? Did you approach them — or did they come to you?

I’m going to give you steps to recreate those memories and stem sentances for what actually to say.

Turn Up the Heat
Day 4 we’re talking about something couples don’t talk about nearly enough — how to truly spice it up and sexy it up. Not just in the bedroom (though yes, we’re going there too), but in the entire energy of your relationship.

The Real Secret to Keeping Passion Alive  Here it is — the thing nobody tells you:
Passion is not something that happens TO you. It’s something you CREATE.

I am going to give you Day 4 playbook with specific details and scripting sentences to create some excitement.

Has everything else become a priority for both of you? Change requires that you make time for each other….IT’S TIME FOR A DATE NIGHT and having FUN!

This involves planning an evening with the very specific personality preferences of your partner. It might mean handling all the arrangements they would normally do, getting a babysitter, having a plan…getting  creative.

What would a date look like where they feel you really, really know and appreciate them for their quirks and what is important to them?

An example of a planning a date for a 7-Optimister might look like:

Fun, fun, fun, and adventure. Not much preplanning needed as that might feel too structured for them. Have a starting plan, take your credit card and see where the evening will takes you. Research ahead of time some newer restaurants or fun places to go so if one isn’t appealing you can offer options. Don’t be surprised if they take over the date so you can just go along for the ride. And be sure to have your energy high as they love the excitement.

These 5 Days are a FUN and Engaging way to shift your patterns and help you to come together and stronger.

If you haven’t done the 5 days before, I encourage you to join OR do it again and you will take your relationship even deeper.

FOR JUST $29 you can reconnect, rejuvenate, and re-energize your relationship.

ACTION is required to make the shift to create a CHANGE!

Join me for the FUN.