Open Your Heart To Loving Through Your Differences 

Embrace Your  Personality Couple Dynamics

I interpret and translate your personality traits together.

Couples hire me to live a Juicier Life and Get Loved The Way They Need…because the truth is…at times most couples feel trapped, powerless, and unloved.

Couples have piled up hurts, resentments and you may have lost trust with your partner in your current or past relationship(s) causing you to close down your heart.

This program is about learning how to open your heart again, so that you can get the love and life you desire.

Learning new loving skills and how to love and be loving … so that you can be the person who is actively loving, not backing away from it.

I help you re-engage, re-connect, and rejuvenate your relationship.

The biggest challenge in ALL relationship dynamics is your personality differences. 

Each of the 9 Enneagam personalities has their own way of seeing the world, their own attitudes and ways of thinking, reacting and behaving.

In a survey I did with couples I asked three questions relating to personality differences:

Challenges:  How do we deal with our personality differences that cause us stress and conflict. 

Frustrations: We don’t know what to do with our differences and keep having the same fights over and over again.  Each feels misunderstood and unappreciated for their differences.

Greatest FEAR: That our differences are going to break us apart if we don’t know how to resolve them. 

It is your personality differences that creates the confusion, disconnection and frustration. 

GREAT NEWS! Learning your personality couple dynnamics and how to deal with your different personality traits, perspectives, values and what is important to you can reconnect you with your partner and take your love deeper.

Rather than attempting to get your partner to share their deepest feelings…which they don’t know how to do and makes them really uncomfortable or they would already be doing that…. you relate through your natural personality traits and patterns. It is like having an Operator’s Manual to understanding each other.

This is a very positive and FUN way to shift dynamics.  My coaching is very specific and can get fast results!


In a this very short period of time and with the information in the profiles I guarantee there will be a noticeable difference in your relationship.

Identify the key dynamics that determines successful relationships

1. Awareness to meet each other’s core emotional needs

2. Be Giving– both needs matter

3. Understanding  & communicating and responding to each other’s needs

4. Identify and manage your own patterns that may be sabotaging the relationship

Each of you has different fundamental emotional needs to feel loved. Often we have no idea what those are for ourselves let alone sharing or understanding your partners needs until you learn your personality “wiring”.

Learn your personality loving style and your relationship connection equation. 

Make your relationship better, stronger, more dynamic.

 I left a 35 year marriage because I couldn’t figure us out. We were two great people, same values, same goals and yet just not a connection…or the connnection I needed to feel loved. I have discovered that I did not know what that was for myself so how could my husband give that to me. Through that experience I found the Enneagram (any-a-gram) personalities and it has transformed my life and All my relationships. I have found happiness within myself  and  To Thrive and Live My Best Life.

Here’s What You Will Learn:

-Your personality similarities and differences as a couple

-How each of you individually feels loved and appreciated

-How to support your partner without enabling

-Practices that will build connection and deepen love

– Key dynamics  for what really matters to both of you

– How to respond to each other more effectively

– What specific responses are you looking for and why you need them

– How to consciously nourish each other to thrive

– Identify conflict triggers , why, and how to negotiate

– When you are “over the top” and how to manage yourself

-Show relationship strengths and challenges together

-Change reaction patterns to de-stress situration

-Gifts you bring to the relationship to increase compatibility and deepen love

Let’s Get Started On Your Transfomation Journey NOW!!!

The Enneagram is for any individual who would like to live life with more consciousness, connection and personal power.

Unsolicited TESTIMONIAL for the Enneagram Relationship Program.

Do you want the marriage/relationship, that you had glimpses of, but can’t sustain?

If you and your mate have a mutual heart felt desire/commitment to achieve a relationship that is within your grasp, this fast evolving program is for you. 

Immediately you will inventory your personality bank. From there, with therapeutic coaching (Eileen Head), you and your mate will discover why you are relating the way you are. Each step is not always comfortable. You can’t have the  rainbow without the rain.

As you round second base you will have an advent of being the partner you want to be, and likewise for your mate. The recipe for lifelong change gained from each probative step provides a roadmap for happiness that is a dream come true. Sound impossible? It’s not.

 This is an intensive program if you immerse yourselves for as little as 10 days and you can have the long-sought relationship you always dreamed of.

It worked for us along with a constant dose of prayer. Each of us discovered characteristics about ourselves; but the undeniable gain is to eliminate the old, negative mannerisms, and then convey them as the new norm of communication.

Remember, all spouses have gifts. Some just open those gifts a little later.

Van & Jo Eve Ellig